It’s time to treat your transition like the holy shift that it is.

Because ceremony can hold both tears and laughter—and you deserve both.

YOU DON’T HAVE TO GO TO THE JUNGLE TO HAVE A RITE OF PASSAGE

Though no shade if you did.

I did too. Let’s make something sacred right where you are.

Because sacred doesn’t have to mean serious.

I design and lead ceremonies that feel like coming home—with a little crying, a little laughing, and maybe even some glitter or sage smoke. My ceremonies are deeply reverent but never rigid, playful but never performative.

They’re crafted to meet your moment—whether you’re crossing into motherhood, entering a marriage, blessing a new home, or just need to sit on the floor with other humans and cry into a drum. You don’t need a temple or a priest. Just breath, intention, and a little magic.

As I wrote in Grieve Outside the Box, “When we ritualize our weirdness and our wounds, we remember we’re not alone—we’re alive.”

Let’s make it sacred, weird, and wildly beautiful.

HOW TO GET STARTED

01

Book a Private Ceremony

Whether you’re grieving, celebrating, letting go, or calling something in—we’ll co-create a custom ritual to honor it.

02

Join a Group Gathering

Seasonal ceremonies, grief circles, sound baths, and group rituals held throughout the year.

03

Invite Me to Lead at Your Event

Hosting a retreat, festival, or big life moment? I’ll bring the drum, the oils, the sense of humor, and the sacred structure.

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Offer number one

PERSONALIZED CEREMONIES

Mark the sacred moment—birthdays, entering a marriage, home clearings, mother blessings, rites of passage. We meet beforehand to tune into your intention, then I craft a full ritual that holds space for the transformation.

I also offer custom ceremonies and officiation for weddings, which include spiritual pre-marriage counseling, guided ritual planning, anointing, smoke cleansing, and ceremonial grounding. I’ll hold space for your union from beginning to integration, including a post-wedding check-in session.

And when life brings grief, I offer funeral ceremonies that blend compassion and reverence. This includes intuitive grief support for the family and spiritual communication (psychopomp work) to honor and relay messages from the departed.

You can also book me for spirit baby ceremonies—whether you’re calling in a child, honoring a pregnancy release, or communing with a baby spirit who has passed. These tender, beautiful rites are some of the most sacred work I do.

In-person or virtual. Always magical.

Investment: $275 and up depending on scope + travel

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Offer number TWO

SEASONAL CEREMONIES & GROUP RITUALS

Grief circles. Solstice sound baths. Anointing gatherings. We gather in community to move through the sacred cycles of life—together.

Held at locations like Commune, Growing Love Garden, and other community partners. Stay tuned on Instagram or sign up for the newsletter.

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Offer number THREE

CEREMONIAL HOSTING FOR RETREATS & EVENTS

Hire me to anchor your gathering with sacred structure and spiritual irreverence. From opening circles to closing rituals, I bring grounded energy, storytelling, and a bit of comedic relief.

Let’s create something unforgettable.

I’LL LET THE NUMBERS DO THE TALKING

10+

Years of Ceremonial Work

50+

Circles, blessings, and group rituals led

Countless

Flower petals, tears, and breakthroughs shared

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LOVE notes

“Elena officiated our wedding, and to say she exceeded all expectations would be an understatement.

She crafted a ceremony that was incredibly personal and heartfelt—perfectly capturing who my husband and I are as individuals and as a couple.

She is a powerful force, and I would recommend her to absolutely anyone looking for an officiant who will take the time to make your ceremony as special and personal as it deserves to be.”

- Melissa R.

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MORE OF THE DIY KIND OF GIRL?

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Meet Your Ceremonialist

Hi, I’m Elena. I help people remember how to make things sacred again. I’m a minister, grief whisperer, yoga teacher, and ceremonialist.

I’ll cry with you, sing to your ancestors, crack a joke, and hold the container so you can fall apart and reassemble.

This isn’t a performance.

This is your ceremony.

  • Want to mark a big transition with depth and intention

  • Believe grief, joy, and weirdness belong in the same room

  • Are craving a spiritual experience that’s actually human

This Is for You If You…

Ready to Ritualize the Moment?

Don’t wait for someone else to give you permission.

Make it sacred. Make it yours.